Testimonials from clients who have learned how to conquer dysfunctional patterns of codependence, abuse, addiction and generally unhealthy behaviors.

These current or graduated clients of Jannette Robert Murray/Life Directions Counseling Center have offered testimonials as to their results and success through this unique, beyond-traditional counseling therapy method, and have given permission to share them with you -

Due to professional ethics, and confidentiality considerations as required by law, unless a client has given his or her specific permission to share their name and other identifying characteristics with prospective clients, we always respect their privacy by disguising their identity; their words are their own.

“I’ve Found Myself! For the longest time, I didn’t know I was lost. I thought I had just changed and turned into the grumpy inadequate person I saw myself as. I saw myself as someone who didn’t really have an awful lot to contribute to this world, outside of bringing home a paycheck and keeping a clean house for my family. I felt responsible for the emotional well-being of everyone around me. I felt at fault if anyone was upset with me - not even considering the fact that maybe I was right! I was always looking for ways to change myself, hoping that it would make things better.

“That was several months ago – now I’ve given myself back to me!

“The largest burden I had placed on myself was the responsibility I felt for the emotional well-being of those around me. Once I recognized what I was doing, it was one of the easiest things to throw away. I felt 50 pounds lighter! In giving this gift to myself, I have also given the greatest gift of all to my son. I have given him the chance to be responsible for himself and to learn from his mistakes, instead of me trying to “fix it” before he could make them.

“I’ve still got an awfully long way to go, but it will be the best investment of time and money I’ve ever made! I’m worth it!”

Anonymous Client, (at about three-quarters
through her counseling & group work)

“I feel like a glass-smooth lake, reflecting the summer sun. Life is occurring just as it should. Family, friends, small creatures... even strangers, delight in my company. My waters are quiet, cool, and refreshing. We play together and our exchanges gently ripple to the shores. I am one with the Universe... yes... peacefully, fulfillingly one. I never felt such joyful stability in my environment until I really loved all of me!”

E.R., (Graduate of Group/Therapy Support, and
this written when she was about to graduate
from Individual Counseling. Very diligent
in doing all her homework—and regularly!)

“I dropped out of counseling because I thought my partner was the one with the problems. I thought I had my head together and could handle the challenges in my life through sheer determination and self-reliance. I was so unhealthy that I did not even recognize my own codependent behavior. I just didn’t have the tools or the knowledge to change my patterns and deal effectively with everyday life. Will power didn’t work and pretending I was strong was such a facade and only made me feel worse.

“Seeing the growth and change in my partner after a couple months counseling with Jannette made me realize that she had the tools and the knowledge to help me. It took a few more months of pain and denial before I was ready to make the commitment to counseling. I’m glad I did!”

D.S. (when soon-to-be graduated from Individual
Counseling, & upon entering Group Therapy/
Support; continues to do very well handling
things in her life and in motherhood.)

“Jannette’s program helped me face the truth about my feelings which, in turn, helped me release the garbage that was stored up (in my life) for years. Like an onion unpeeled, I found the real me filled with peace and love. My heart has been healed emotionally and spiritually.

“Mentally, I was an addictive thinker. Through Jannette’s training and process and my patience and desire to heal, I persevered in doing the work assigned and have now become a clear, confident, healthy thinker. I have peace of mind.

“I continue to use the tools which I learned in Jannette’s program since I realize these tools are to be used for a lifetime. I am always grateful for Jannette and her program. (It works!!)

“God Bless Her Always (Abundantly).”

N.P. (written upon graduation from Private Counseling,
and following graduation from Group Therapy/
Support. She had dropped out of counseling
several times and had graduated several prior
groups (but wasn’t ready to give up all of her
codependent addictions).)

“I didn’t tell her when I called, but I had tried other counselors before, and this was my last-ditch effort. She told me that if I would do what she gave me to do and stay with it, she guaranteed I would get results. I tried it, in both private counseling and group therapy... and she was right. Her methods work! Everyone should be doing this!”

“Jannette, you don’t know it, but you saved my life!”

S.L. (Private Client & Group
Therapy/Support Graduate)