This is an Interactive Web Site - You are Here at my Invitation!

I have installed a Live Chat software system from Provide Support. I’ve been spending a bit of time with it, as I update my web pages for you, and am thus close by to observe.

It has been quite interesting to watch the behavior of my web site visitors through the means of this great tool. At first it was fascinating to see where people are from, and then how often I see the same towns (and one or more IP addresses within those towns).

Then I began to notice the cloaking of identity by some individuals (no one can see your actual name, but we can see your IP address), and how desperately some people seem to want to browse in private. (You are presumably here because you want something I’ve provided on my pages, which constitutes my help; but many of you don’t want to disclose anything other than what you typed into the search engine.)

Even when you’ve typed in a desperate-sounding search question, you often run away when I offer to respond to it!

I’m sure not everyone realizes yet that there can be a live person, ready to answer your questions; but you run away a great deal of the time, as though you didn’t want to be seen or interact. I hope with familiarity and trust in my ability to help you, you can learn not to do that...

The software shows those pages you visit (as far as I have the Provide Support codes placed on them...), how long you stay on those pages, and when you pop on and off my site (or go to pages that aren’t yet coded and return). Or maybe you’re looking again at the results from the search engine. That's always a mystery at this end!

I am also not really amazed, but frustrated at the high numbers of individuals who only want information and no interaction.

Perhaps you do not yet realize that you are visiting a web site where you can chat interactively with the owner, or a representative of the site owner (at Life Directions / Inspired Counseling.com, there is only me, but I am available to answer your questions when I’m online).

...And I am able to give you more intelligent answers than the search engines could ever be! You can ask me questions, or I can answer the questions I see you have entered into your search engine, if you will let me...

The reaction I get when I send you information over the chat window is like one of fear many times, and you run away; or it is one of swift annoyance/anger and you close the window so rapidly I know you haven’t had time to read what is shared with you on it. The chat window is not a pop-up ad! ...it’s me, LIVE.

So I want to say “Ouch! I just got the door slammed in my face... That was me, live,” type of response, to let you know that was a live human being trying to communicate with you. But I don’t get that option.

When I can see that you’ve had enough time to read an announcement I might send you that’s not yet on my web pages, and then you close the window, that’s fine; that was all I’d intended.

I bid you, when you visit my pages, or anyone else’s pages where a chat service is active, to bring your company manners with you. You are a visitor or guest on my web pages, and welcome as long as you are polite, respectful and honor the great gift that is given to you of the wealth of information you find here.

My web pages are created and posted entirely by me, not some large, nameless, faceless organization; not some web design service. This is my expertise and my specialty from which I share with you. But it will soon only be as available, as you return the favor and share of yourself, as well.

YOUR ACTIONS ON MY PAGES:

I find some visitors come and stay for hours on one or several of my pages. I wonder at times, if you are memorizing the text, or if you have left your computer, with that page open on your browser (though if I take the time to do it, I can “co-browse” and tell if you are scanning down the page or if there is no movement).

If you are a slow reader, or need to read the information several times to get it, because it is a new concept, that’s totally fine. If you do not have a printer, you may return numerous times.

However, eventually you need to TAKE ACTION, if you are to get any change in your circumstances. Just reading about it doesn’t create a change in results. Awareness does NOT create change.

Trying to force yourself to change with will power also does not work; you must heal the causes of your unhealthy patterns of behavior, and change how you are attracting what you have in your life. You can only do that with the healing work which I teach you how to do...

If You Are ‘Borrowing’ My Content —

It also seems that some people have come to ‘borrow’ my content. That, of course, is an illegal act, and not allowed. You are welcome to print my pages, for your own personal edification, but not to reprint or republish that content, nor to teach/counsel others from it.

If you are a therapist, coach or teacher, you are invited to explore and sign up for my therapist training, learn the Golden Keys Method (in its entirety) from me, be licensed in it, and thus able to offer your clients/students the full value possible from this truly effective, beyond-traditional ‘model’ therapy approach. It exists nowhere else.

The Golden Keys to Recovery / Healing is a proprietary method (I own it!); and a complete, comprehensive program. You may not use it in any way, shape or form, without being trained in it by me, and licensed to use it by me. You may not use the content of my pages except in a brief quote to refer prospective clients or therapist-trainees to me.

Any other thing you attempt to do with my information for the good of others would be incomplete, and ineffective, as well as illegal. You are not at liberty to share my pages, their content, nor my words with others, (whether you do it for free or for a fee) without credit to me, nor without my express, written permission (specifically given to you, personally, in each instance).

GET TRAINED, AND DO IT RIGHT! Bits and pieces do not do it! You may not counsel, coach, nor lead groups with my information. That is plagiarism.

If you have been doing that, STOP IT NOW! Apologize to those with whom you have been sharing my information, and let them know that it was not informed, is incomplete, and that I, Jannette Robert Murray, am currently the only one they can learn this from and derive any actual benefit, other than information/awareness. And awareness does not create change. Will power does not work. Bits and pieces do not create lasting change.

You are only adding insult to injury, and prolonging their patterns when you do this, under the guise of ‘teaching’ or ‘therapy’. Such actions constitute not only plagiarism, but fraud.

THERAPIST, COACH & TEACHER TRAINING:

If you are chosen to receive this training, it is done in a certain way, for a fee, and includes your bringing of at least one or more chosen clients with you (continuously) to each training, so that their healing may follow through the process in the usual and normal fashion, as conducted by JANNETTE ROBERT MURRAY; and will be conducted either in her offices, or by phone or chat room attendance.

This training will be conducted over the course of a year or more. There can and should be a dual therapy/training mode of this use of Ms. Murray’s time... in that, you as therapist, or teacher, in most instances, will also participate in therapy for yourself, and become as healthy as you can possibly become, in order to offer to your clients, the maximum health as a therapist, or teacher. ANYTHING LESS THAN THAT CONSTITUTES YOUR OFFERING YOUR CLIENTS AN UNHEALTHY THERAPIST, OR TEACHER. You would not want that, and neither do they.

The training and therapy will be done under contract, and until complete, you are not authorized, nor do you have permission to utilize the therapy, nor any other information you have gleaned from Jannette Robert Murray, nor from her web pages, and other writings, with others of your clients or groups.

When complete, and graduated by me, you would be licensed to utilize the Golden Keys to Recovery therapy, and only this therapy, in your practice or teaching, and may not mix it with other methods. Such mixing would dilute the effectiveness of, and bastardize this highly effective therapy model.

You would also be licensed to utilize the therapy only in your own geographic area, in a private or group format, and not over the Internet.

You may advertise, once licensed, that you do use the method of Jannette Robert Murray, and The Golden Keys to Recovery, but you may not infringe on my geographic territory, nor my Internet practice, by advertising on the Internet.

You may never sell, nor represent yourself as having for sale, any or all of this therapy method, in any format other than that which you are licensed to counsel from, live and face-to-face. Such other forms are reserved to me, Jannette Robert Murray, only, and are expected to be sold by me, and my estate.

THE MEMBERSHIP PAGES COMING SOON:

Very shortly, certain of my pages or portions thereof will disappear behind a membership ‘wall’, and if you are here to utilize and appreciate my help, you will be open and honorable about that; Otherwise, no access.

Now or then, I welcome you to my pages, and invite you to stay as long as they are helpful to you, return as often as you need to... however, I ask that you always bring your Company Manners with you, and not only respect and appreciate all that I am sharing with you here, but also that I am in business to help you. I do that through Individual Counseling and through Therapy/Support Groups, through membership in this web site, as well as the training of others whom I would then authorize to utilize this effective therapy method.

Do not expect that you will be able to heal yourself of your pattern via information alone — you will not. The information is here to encourage you to do something constructive about your unhealthy patterns and to know that they will continue to worsen (with potentially fatal consequences) until you DO get involved in the program and GET WELL!

I hope you will qualify to do that growth work directly with me. I am very particular about whom I accept as my client, wanting for you and for myself only a very successful outcome to your therapy. That happens via a strong commitment and in-depth work in the counseling therapy process. It requires completion.

Thank you for visiting. Browse for your health!

Warm regards,

Jannette Robert Murray

Owner
Psychotherapist &
Clinical Hypnotherapist
Group Therapy Facilitator
& Energy Therapist