Are You an Enabler?
Do You Know Why?
Do You Know How to Stop?

Do you understand why you do this, and know how to stop?

You can stop enabling as soon as you’re ready
...and you DEFINITELY can be helped.

You know someone else has an addiction — SO DO YOU!

It is not a hopeless situation; but you do have work to do...

Get all the information here, and read about it — in detail — but do not expect you will get any change until you get into this Program — and do the necessary and URGENTLY important Inner Growth work — which creates the change in you that makes all the difference!

Just reading/learning about it does not create any lasting change for you...

If you want change (in your own behavior and thus your results), you must heal the underlying causes of enabling; which manifest as your low self-esteem — evident, in part, as your inability to say “no”, to stand up for yourself, and to ask for what you want... to be strong (perhaps in the face of abuse?)

You’ve already learned you cannot do it with will power — and — you cannot do it by yourself.

This is the last information you’ll need — but you must act on it — by getting involved.

That IS the next step, and the only one that works.

You say enabling is making you crazy?

• How long has enabling been going on with you?
• How much lamenting are you doing?
• How assertive are you able to be?
• Are you getting the results you want in any of this?

If you do not like your answers to these questions, do they tell you something needs to change? If so, you are in the right place for guaranteed results...

“The Golden Keys to Recovery” is an effective — proven since 1986 — counseling therapy approach that is beyond-traditional, where you use TOOLS that work together in a cumulative, progressive manner, to re-script the programming you’ve been operating under to date (that’s been giving you the results you’re getting).

And when you complete — graduating with lots of your beginning changes already in place — you have the TOOLS to continue... creating all of the change you desire in your life — for the rest of your life — including:

1. High Self-esteem
2. The Ability to say “No” and stand by it
3. Confidence in your appropriate stand on what’s right
4. Setting and maintaining good Boundaries
5. Loving yourself enough to know you deserve only the Best!
6. Telling it like it is...
7. Taking NO GUFF from the people you’ve been enabling!

The person(s) whose unhealthy patterns you enable may be doing one or more of these behaviors:

• Drinking too much

• Abusing drugs (prescription or street drugs)

• Getting arrested (you keep bailing him/her out)

• Spending too much

• Overdrawing their bank account / bouncing checks

• Gambling too much

• In trouble with loan sharks / check cashing agencies (who get you hooked and steal you blind!)

• Maxing out the credit cards

• Working too much / not enough

• ...And any of a number of other unhealthy behaviors/patterns of addiction

However you look at it, they are driving you to distraction, emotional and financial ruin!

Enabling is Very Often Part of Codependence

Any time you assist / allow another person to continue in their unproductive / unhealthy / addictive behavior, whether actively or passively, you are enabling!

Silence condones. So even when you say nothing (such as ‘minding your own business’), you are enabling the behavior to continue.

Sometimes you say nothing out of fear — fear of reprisal, fear of the other person hating / hurting / not liking you; or fear of butting in where you don’t think you belong. Perhaps even fear of being hit... or worse!

In the media we now see messages about reporting child abuse, or reporting domestic violence. The message is attempted to be conveyed that it IS your business to report these things — whether it’s happening to you or to someone else.

Our former First Lady’s book says “It takes a community to raise a child” — and it does. It takes everyone caring... enough to “butt in” when you see something you know isn’t right.

(Perhaps such as the person who got you to come here...?)

Want to talk about it?

Send the registration email to me.

You must specify the date and time of the Open Chat for which you are registering. (Current schedule is available at meetings.htm page.)

Give your name, email address, and the other information requested in the web page. Your registration will be acknowledged and you will shortly thereafter be given the access information to the Meeting Room. (It is not automated.)

When will be the right time for you to get healthy?

There’s always something, so put it off no longer! (The ‘somethings’ are just excuses, you know! They are resistance — you get help with that.)

The longer you wait, the more severely unhealthy your pattern becomes, the more work it will take to reverse it; and the more it will cost... (as is also true of the pattern of the person(s) you enable).

However... there IS a way to make it happen for yourself NOW! (Please ask if you need help budgeting...)

If you haven’t registered yet, time is running out!

Make your healing and the rest of your life being happy, successful, constructive — a life of your own design — begin, starting right now.

Free those you've been enabling to also find their own health...

When you are your own highest priority, you’ll make it happen. No one will ever care as much about you as you should care about yourself. (And that may be something you need help to learn how to do, too!)

“If it is important enough to you, you will find a way. If it is not, you will find an excuse.”

I’m ready to help you do all of that, when you’re ready to LET ME HELP YOU...

You were led here to receive this information and have my help...

Call me today! (Phone number below) Or send me your Registration Application today. (There is a qualification process.)